Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People You give, you care, you feel deeply… so why do you keep ending up with people who can’t meet you where you are? In this video, I’m talking about a pattern that so many deep feelers and quiet givers find themselves stuck in—attracting emotionally unavailable people.

Maybe you already know it’s not love… it’s longing. But breaking the cycle feels impossible. We’ll talk about where this pattern really comes from, how your nervous system might be confusing “home” with “hurt,” and why real love doesn’t feel like hunger—it feels like exhale.

If this one hits you in the heart, you’re not alone.

And no, you’re not broken. But you are allowed to want more.

Sam Ruckle - Owner at Counsellor at Paper Crane Of Hope

Sam Ruckle is the owner and founder of Paper Crane Of Hope. A mental health awareness campaign; leaving paper cranes in the community to spread a positive mental health message. She is also an Australian based online counsellor- providing therapy services to those who are INFJ’s, introverts and gentle souls; those healing from childhood trauma; and dealing with stress, depression and anxiety.
You can follow her paper crane journey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/papercraneofhope

https://www.papercraneofhope.com
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